Where Unimportance Takes Us
By Rayne People occasionally talk about ignoring someone (or being ignored) as punishment in a consensual owner/property relationship. For those who believe in ”Let the punishment fit the crime.” it’s...
View ArticleSingle, searching submissive
By Sarah Sloane Dear Sarah, Last year in your column, you wrote about what a dominant should look for when screening potential submissives. As a submissive, I find that there are a lot of people out...
View ArticleBDSM Explained: Acronyms Abound
By Sea This article is first of a three-series article that explains what BDSM is, and why people enjoy it. It would be helpful to those with or without an interest in BDSM who wish to know more about...
View ArticleCan Buddhism Be A Style of Love and D/s?
Self-love and loving in Buddhism takes on various forms both mentally, emotionally, and physically. Recently Tantra has been a new popular sexual lifestyle which has incorporated not only fulfilling...
View ArticleThe Many Sides of Fear
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I...
View ArticleMeditation: A Possible Path To Present Submission
I decided to meditate before a play session earlier this month. I had a busy morning. I had some spiritual meetings to attend before I came back to being present for a play session, and since I was...
View ArticlePlease Skip the Please, Thanks for not Thanking Me
A question arises in BDSM circles from time to time. Should a dominant say please and thank you when interacting with a sub? The title of this column might make you think that please and thank you are...
View ArticleScreening Service Submissives
Dear Sarah, I am a Dominant looking for a service submissive, what is best way to screen someone? Signed, K.
View ArticleTrinity
by C.K. Persons The Trinity – the doctrine or teaching that God is Father/Creator, Son/Redeemer, and Holy Spirit/Sanctifier – is central to Catholicism. But no one fully understands the Trinity. That...
View ArticleWhere to start?
Dear Sarah, My partner and I are just starting to explore service-giving & receiving, and I must confess that I’m stumped as to how to start. Yesterday, I helped her dress and tied her shoes, and I...
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